THE DESIRABLE LIFE

DESIRE YANE CHAHAT 
CHAHAT KYA HAI ?
CHAHAT ACCHI HAI YA BURI ?
CHAHAT SE RELATIONSHIP PAR KYA ASAR PADTA HAI ?
CHAHAT AUR MEHNAT DONO MIL JAYE TO KYA HOGA ?

LIFE KE INHI KUCH QUESTIONS KE ANSWER AAP KO MILENGE MERE ISS LEKH ME / BASS AAP ISS LEKH KO PURA PADNE KI KOSHISH KARE /
CHAHAT YE CHIJ BADI MAJEDAR HAI / NATURE ne sabko chahat di hai / isi chahat ke vajah se hi to duniya me hame alag alag chije dekhne ko mil rahi hai hai / chahat hi relationship banati hai / chahat hi hame kisi chij ko pane me madat karti hai /
chahat ke bhi apne fayde aur nuksaan hote hai / apke amir aur bade banane ki chahat hi apko well educated banati hai / aap uss chij ko pane ke apni ji jaan laga dete hai / jaise ki koi shilpkar ki chahat se jaab koi murti ya sculpture ya statue banata hai tab hame kitna accha lagata hai / aur ham usko izzat dete hai / prize dete hai /
chahat bina zindagi berang ho jayegi / agar lakda lakdi ek dusre ko chahenge nahi to duniya me relationship naam ki chiz hi nahi hogi / agar aap ko kisi chiz ya success pane ki chahat hi nahi hogi to aap ki zindagi boring or sadu ho jayegi/ kisi khiladi ki jitne ki chahat hi usese khel jitati hai / isliye bina chahat ke duniya bebas aur bedhang najar aayegi /
chahat sabme hoti hai aaap me bhi hogi / aap me love lover pane chahat hi aapko handsome (boys) aur beautifull(girls ) rahane pe majboor kar deti hai / aap jindagi romanch se bhar deti hai / aap ke kushi ka thinkana nahi rahata /
par chahat kabhi kabhi khatarnak rup bhi le sakti hai / chahat jab jid ban jati hai to insaan use paane ke liye kuch kar sakta hai /
kisi insaan ki amir hone ki chahat hi usase galat kam karati hai / wo vinash par utar ata hai / isi wajah se insaan chor aur dhoke baaj aur thag ban jata hai / aaj kal ham dekhte hai ke kisi ladki ne kisi ladke ka pyaar ka proposal thukra dene par uss ladki par tejab phekh diya jaata hai / ya phir unke saath jo kiya jaata hai wo apko pata hi hai ,aap khud samajdar hai / kisi ladke dokha dene par koi ladki suicide kar leti hai kyuuki wo use bohat chahati hai / kisi neta ya officer ke chahat jab lalach ka rup leti hai tab wo desh ko lutne lagata hai /
pati ya patni ki najayaj chahat ke karan unke rishte me darar ajati hai aur ek pavitra bandhaan tut jaata hai /
chahat jaisi anmol chij hame nature ne bade pyar se di hai / apni chahat ko aap agar kabu me rakhe / kisi chij ko agar aap chahate hai use use mehanat aur lagan se pane ki koshish kare , koi jabardasti ya galat rasta na apnaye to apko wo chij jaroor milegi / aur apko jo sukun milega uss ki baat hi alag hogi / par agar apne chahat me koi shortcut ya galat rasta ajmaya to apki barbadi hogi hi ///
isliye aap apne chahat ko pura karne ke liye dil se mehnat kare aur apne jivan ko sukhi banaye /

MAI ISS LEKH KI SAMAPAN EK VAKYA SE KARANA CHAHUNGA

                     " CHAHAT KO LALACH ME NA BADALE "

CHARACTER

CHARACTER YANE SWABHAW  SWABHAW KYA HAI ?  SWABHAW KONSE HAI ?  SWABHAW KA INSAAN KE PEHECHAAN SE KYA RISHTA HAI ? SWABHAW KA JINDAGI ME KYA IMPORTANCE HAI ? LIFE KE INHI SAWALO KE JAVAB AAPKO ISS LEKH ME MILENGE MERE IISS LEKH ME/ BAS AAP ISS LEKH KO PURA PADNE KI KOSHISH KARE / NATURE ne ham insaano ko ek bhadiya sharir diya hai / personality di hai / jis tarah hath ki pach ungliya same nahi hoti usi tarah sabake sharir aur personality alag alag hoti hai / isi vividhata ya difference ko banaye rakhne ke liye nature ne hame alag alag characters yane swabhaw diye hai / WORLD me apko har ek swabhaw ke log milenge / world in alag alag logo ke swabhaw se colourfull dikhane lagata hai / koi insaan jaldi gussa karne wala hota hai / koi insaan samjhdaar suljhe ,to koi husmukh bhi hote hai / koi dai chaplus ,thag , chalak ,chalbaz hota hai / aur koi chipku swabhaw ka hota hai / KISI ko bohat jaldi gussa ajata hai / par wo jaldi shant bhi ho jate hai / apme se kai logone aise log dekhe honge / aap in ki baat par jaldi react na kare / un baato par jyada dhyaan na de / kyoki inke mu padna apna hi nuksaan karna hoga / par aise log maan ke saaf hote hai / ye kabhi bhi apne dil me koi baat daba nahi rakh sakte / ye kisi ki chaplusi ya kisi ki pith piche uski burayi nahi karate / inn logo me sahan karne ki takat nahi hoti / jo inke maan me hota hai ye khullkar bolte hai / inse dosti karna hai to inke gusse ko thoda sahan karle / kyoki ye maan ke saaf hote hai / aur bohat acchi dosti nibhate hai / JO log shant , suljhe swabhaw ke hote hai wo kisi bhi baat ko samjhdari se lete hai / ye jaldi krodhit nahi hote ,kisi bhi jhagde ko baatchit se suljha lete hai / ye fijul ki baato me naahi padte / par inka dimag bhadak gaya to ye sabse khatarnak bhi sabit hote hai / ye jaldi shant bhi hote / ye log apne dukh ko dusre ke sath share nahi karna chahate ye apne problem kudh solve kar lete hai / ye dusre ki madat karenge aur uska shreya bhi nahi lenge / aise logo se jindigi ki salah lena bohat faydemand hota hai / aise log bohat kam hi milenge / JO log chalak ,thag , chaplus , aur ghatiya swabhaw wale hote hai , unse dur hi rahe / chaplus insaan se apni koi baat share na kare ye apke mushkil me daal denge / ye dusro ki jindagi me tak jhak karna , uunme jhagde lagana hi inhe accha lagta hai / thag aur chalak ke dimag me kuch hota hai aur ye bolte kuch hai / inke saath koi sambandh na rakhe agar rakhna hai to jara savdhani se / Kuch log man ke acche aur hasmookh hote hai / par kabhi kabhi vo irritating lagne lagte hai / ye hame bor kar dete hai / ye haste jyada hai / bevejah jokes aur faltu ki feku kahaniya sunane lag jate hai / ye bade chipku type ke inssaan hote / isme inki koi galti nahi hoti ye baas apke sath dosti rakhna chahte hai / isliye inka majak udaye par par inke sath bhed bhav na kare / inhe apne sath shamil kare / inka galat fayda na uthaye / Kuch log positive thinking rakhte hai / ye hamesha safal, aur successsfull aur kush rahate hai / inke sath par hame accha lagta hai / hame aur protsahan milta hai /hame age badne ki prerana milti hai / ye kabhi hame darate nahi balki mushkil ko hal karne salah bhi dete hai / they are always in there life agar insaan negative thinking wala ho to / wo har baat galtiya nikalata hai / wo hamesha mushikilo se dar jata hai wo hamesha harne ka aesas dilate hai / inke sath rahne se ham bhi nirash aur dukhi rahne lagte hai / aur jivan me milne wale mauko ko kho dete hai / inse dur rahana sikhe / Insaan ka swabhaw uski surrounding , tay karti , use milne wala shikshan aur sanskar tay karte hai / uske ke jivan me ghatne wali ghatnaye tay karti hai / par ye bhi baat utni hi sahi hai ke ye inssaan par depend karta hai ki wo accha bato ya phir buri baato ko apnata hai / Mai manata hu ki insaan ka swabhaw itni jaldi badalta nahi hai / par aap agar koshish kare to aap apne swabhaw ko behtar bana sakte hai /aur jivan me sukhi aur successsfull bana sakte hai / Apne jivan me samajdar aur shanti se kam lena sikhe / aur hamesha positive rahe / Iss lekh ki samapathi mai ek acche vakya se karna chahunga :- " CHARACTER IS THE IDENTIY OF THE HUMAN BEING "           "INSAAN KA SWABHAW HI USKI PEHCHAAN HAI "

ATTRACTION

ATTRACTION KYA HOTA HAI ?
ATTRACTION KISS KISM KE HOTE HAI ?
ATTRACTIVE KAISE BANA JAYE ?
ATTRACTION AUR SUCCESS KA KYA RELATION HAI ?
Amitabh B kaise attractive hai ?
LIFE KE INHI SAWALO KE JAVAB AAPKO ISS LEKH ME MILENGE MERE IISS LEKH / BAS AAP ISS LEKH KO PURA PADNE KI KOSHISH KARE /

ATTRACTION YANE AAKARSHAN / Konsa insaan kiss insaan se ya vastu attract hoga , ye uss insaan par ya vastu par depend karta hai / insaan ho ya janwaar vo kisina kisi chiz ke taraf attract hota hai / attract karne vale aur attract hone valo ke wajah se hi to ye duniya chal rahi hai /
Full butterfly ko attract karta hai ussase apna kam karwa leta hai / dunkandar apne customer ko attract kar ke apne business chalata hai / hero heroine apne fans ko attract karke apnni films hit karate hai / ha .. ha .. mujhe pata hai ek point chut gaya , wo hai ki GIRLS boys ko attract kar ke unse apna kam karwa leti hai / unse apni kudh ki .... tariff karwa leti hai / aur Boys , ladkiyo ko attract karke kya karte hai ? ye mujhe batane ki zaroorat nahi , aap khud hi samajdar hai / hai ki nahi ?

World me attraction ke bohat types hai / par ham philal apke aur apne yane insaan ke kam ane wale attraction ki bat karenge /
World me bohat logo ko ye galatfahami yani ke misunderstanding hai ke kubhsurrat beautifull insaan ( boys & girls ) hi sabko attract karta hai / ha mai manata hu ki aisa hota hai / par ye attraction tab tak rahega jab tak uss insaan ki bahari khubhsurati barkaraar rahegi / uss insaan ko is attraction ko pane me koi mehnat nahi karni padti wo janam se milti hai / par ye sab jyada din nahi tikta , uska attraction uske khubsurati ke sath khatam ho jata hai / aur wo hame badsurat lagne lagata hai /
jis tarah heroine hame do tin filmo ya salo tak acchi lagti hai / uske bad do koi usse puchta bhi nahi / Ha ... Ha .. pata hai jis tarah couples ka attraction dhire dhire kam hone lagta hai / aur unka breakup ho jata hai /
Aab mai jiss Attraction ki baat karne wala hu wo aapko bahot kam insaano me nazar aayegi / ye insaan janam se attractive nahi hote / aab gaur se padhe - ye attraction apke SWABHAW , KARAM , aur apke VICHARO par depend karta hai /
Aise insaan aapko past , present me kam hi milenge / kyoki inke jaisa banana itna asan nahi hota hai / ye insaan PARISHRAM , MEHANAT, AUR INTELLIGENT HOTE HAI / inke attraction ki life unlimited hoti hai /
Ye insaan aplne swabhaw , aur karmo se apni andar ki sundarta yani atma ki sundarta ko nikhar kar apne aap ko attractive dikhate hai / ex - Mahatma gandhi kya kis tarah ka bahari external attraction tha nahi na ,phir bhi wo apne swabhw apne futuristic vichar se apne mato se karodo indians ko attract kar paye / aur bharat ko azadi dila paye /
Hamare sabke Favourite AMITABH BACHHAN Kya unhe pahele log lambu kahakar chidate nahi the / par wo hare nahi , ruke nahi unhone apne karam se ,apne mehnat se jo aaj position hasil ki shayad hi kis khubsurrat aur attractive actor ne wo position payi ho / Ham inhi sab log ki taraf attract hote hai / inki ham man se izzat karte hai / agar aap mehanat kare to aap bhi apne aapko inki tarah attractive bana sakte hai /
iss liye ye aap par depend karta hai ke aap kis tarah ke attraction ko chunte hai /
Ye hamasha yad rakhe ki attraction kubhsurati ka mohataaj nahi hoti / insaan ke karam use ATTRACTIVE banate hai /

iss lekh ki samaptti mai ek vakya se karna chahunga ---

                              ''BAHARI SUNDARATA FIZUL HAI ,,
                       ANDRUNI (Atma ki ) SUNDARATA ANMOL HAI

SUCCESSS

"NIKAMMA" YE SHABD BOHAT LOGO KO JANA PECHANA LAGTA HOGO . YE DO PRAKAR KE HOTE HAI 1] KAMCHOR  NIKAMEE & 2] SAMAJDAR AUR MAJBOOR NIKAMME  YE LEKH SAMAJDAR AUR MAJBOOR NIKAMME KE LIYE LIKH RAHA HU . Kya aake ghar me koi person nik amma hai ? kya aapko koi nikamma kehata hai? Aapko kya lagta hai , koi nikamma kyu banata hai ? kya nikamme vyakti (person) ko khali bhaitne me maja ata hai / mujhe pata hai aap ha kahenge/ ha mai janata hu ki kuch kamchor log hote, jinhe god bhi nahi sudhar sakte par sabhi ko ek hi taraju me tolna thik nahi hoga / par mera manana ye hai ke kuch vyakti samajdar , hunurmand hone par bhi nikkamme ho jate hai. in vyakti (ladies or gents dono) ko koi kushi nahi hoti kam ko talne ki / vo nikamme kudh ke marji se nahi bante/ paristhiti unhe nikamma banati hai / Agar paristhiti uske layak ho aur use pasand aane wala kam use karne diya jaye aur vo jiss carrier me apna future banana chahata hai use mil jaye, to mai 1000% gaurantee deta hu ki vo dusre hi din se kam me man lagakar jut jayenge aur aapna mukam hasil karke dikhayenge. par agar paristhitiya pratikul ho yani unjke mahke mutabik na ho to phir aap kitna bhi karle kitna bhi jor jabardasti karle vo kam nahi kar payega/ iska matlab ye na nikale ke vo vyakti aapke kam ko tal raha hai ,par aapko ye samjhana hoga ki vo vyakti aake diye gaye kam aapke lade hue ambition kyu nahi kar pa raha hai / Nature (God) ne har insaan ko aalag banayaaa hai, unhe alag hunar diye hai , har vyakti alag alag skhetra me nipun hai agar aap us vyakti ko dusra kam , ya phir alag field me jaane ke liye majboor karenge to vo vyakti aapni puri takat aapna dimag usme nahi laga payega aur phir vo baar usme asafal ho jayega. Is asafalta ya failure se vo nirash ho jayega uska man kisi chij me nahi lagaga aur vo nikamme ki taraha ghar bhaite rahega aur log sharab ka sahara lekh aapne har aapne failure ko bhulne ki koshish karenge .kuch suicide bhi karte hai. Inhi samajdar aur kartabvan vyakti chahe vo aadmi ho ya aurat unhe iss aandhkar se bachane ke liye hame unhe ummid ki kiran dikhani padegi/ Hame ye samjhana hog ke vo kya chahte hai , UNKI samasya kya hai , vo kis field me aapne carrier ko nikharna aur banana chahte hai/ aap dur ke kahana ya sunane par dyanna na de us vyakti se uski iccha jane . bohat log kahate hai ki "aab meri umar aab mai aapne dream pure nahi kar paaonga " ye darna aapne man & dimag se nikal de aur iss kahavat ka aapne jivan isstmal kare "JAB JAAGO TAB SAVERA " Mai inhi KARTABGAR IMANNDAR MEHANNATI NIKAMMO " KE RISHTEDAR UNKE Mata-pita bhai ya behan se ki inki madat kare inka sath de phir dekhiye ye aapke aur aapke parivaar ka naam roshan kaise karte hai. kartabgar logo yehi vakta uthiye aur dikha dijeye duniya ko ki aap nikamme nahi unhi aapki takat aapki samjdari ka namuna dikhaye aur chakit kar de aape KING SIZE SUCCESS se . kyuki itihas gavha hai ke koshish karne valo ki har nahi hoti /aapne saapne aapne parivaar ko bataye aur aapne sapno ko pura kare / Agar abhi bhi nahi samjhe to GOD bhi aapke liye kuch nahi kar sakta. aapko ye lekh kaisa laga aur ise padkar aapke jivan kya badlav aaye ye jarror bataye / Mai is lekh ka samapan ek mahan vichar se karna chahunga,